Saturday, March 22, 2014

what would be an appropriate birthday gift for a man i have just started dating?




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we have been talking on email and phone for 2 weeks, and we just met in person for about an hour 5 days ago. we are supposed to go out tonight, and his birthday is this week. is it appropriate/expected for me to give him a gift, or maybe just a card, or nothing at all?


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I would say the MOST ABSOLUTE PERFECT THING you could do for his birthday, as long as it's in your power, is to spend more time than just an hour with him. Give him some of your time for his birthday. I'd feel awkward if I just started dating someone and he gave me a gift.

Hopefully, there will be plenty of other birthdays to give him a real present, but right now, you two need to spend time together.

Face to face, not in a chat room or anything super lame like that.

What birthday gift do you get a guy who you just started dating?




X-tine


So I've been friends with this guy for a while, and we went on a couple dates recently. My birthday was about a month ago, and he took me out to dinner to this really cute Thai restaurant and we spent the rest of the night talking (we're really close now that we've basically poured our hearts out to each other).

It's his birthday this saturday and I want to do something nice for him. We're not officially dating, so I don't want to be extravagant about it. Also, I don't want to spend too much on him (he's not my boyfriend yet!), but he's got expensive taste.

I was thinking taking him out to dinner and maybe a comedy club or trying to find tix to a local concert of some band he may like...I don't know. Anyone have any suggestions? He has a lot of s**t going on in his life right now and I want to give him a good birthday and a night he's really enjoy (please, guys, don't suggest anything dirty).

Thanks.



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If I am going through a lot of poop in my life, I would rather receive a present which is well-thought through rather than just plain expensive.

I would suggest a box of chocolate properly wrapped with a birthday card that has a lot of meaning notes on it [show that you care]. Tell him what you think, he will understand




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