Friday, March 14, 2014

no jewelry as bridesmaid gift...?




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I am not buying my bridesmaids jewelry as a gift. We all have such varying tastes in jewelry, so I just decided not to do it.

Should I tell them this? Is jewelry kind of expected? I feel like everyone always give jewelry.

Should I give them guidelines on what kind of jewelry to wear so they don't look sloppy, or not?
I am not buying them jewelry nor do i want them to have to buy anything new...
OK...my question is can I give them guidelines on jewelry to wear since I am not purchasing it? or is that rude?



Answer
You do not have to give jewelry... not at all!!!

You don't need to tell them either... it should be a surprise... get them something that really fits their personalities as individuals, and you know that they would really enjoy... it is meant to be a thank you to them for keeping you grounded, and supporting you through the whole wedding planning process, not a way to show how you spend $xxxx on them...

don't over think it... trust me! I spent weeks freaking out about not spending enough, or getting them something flashy enough, or what was expected...

The number one lesson I learnt through the whole wedding process, is that you do not have to do what is expected of you... for anything!!

A good source, for me at least, what the "kvetch" board at www.indiebride.com.

Good luck, and congratulations!

Hope this helps!

:)

Gift ideas for (Jewellery)?




ColourMeAl


This is a little different than you're average present..

See.. i met a girl online a few years ago who lives in Canada and i live in England. We basically fell in love with each other and visited each other multiple times..

but Im looking for a gift, preferably jewellery, something that we can both wear if possible.

Im looking anywhere up to £200

any ideas and URL's would be greatly appreciated.



Answer
Just buy any type of jewel...girls go crazy for expensive gifts




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