Cynthia
Today my dad and I went for a walk and we talked about stuff, you know the usual, funny videos and food and all that. Somehow we landed on the subject of Birthday Gifting. And since I'm a nice person, I really like to give people nice gifts like nice watches (not those really fancy ones but you know what I mean), a big pack of lip gloss, a great book, etc. I do not feel obligated to give people gifts, I just sort of want to and it's kinda complicated feeling.
Then my dad said, "Do your friends give presents to you?"
And then I realized, most of them don't. Only a few do. My friends are always like, "omg its my bday party better bring me a gift!!"
I have a summer sucky birthday, which no one ever remembers. and when they do, they are always like, "OH! I forgot! Happy Bday!"
Then my friends will promise to give me a gift....*oh no my mom couldn't take me to the mall*
But the thing is, I like giving gifts with thought. My friends will give me a half-eaten pack of goldfish for a present and then demand that i give them my hot cheetos cause they gave me a "gift."
I don't know what to do. I feel....i don't know. But if I don't give them a gift, it makes me feel bad and not a good friend. What should I do?
P.S. if you give me a stupid answer like "whatever find new friends..u r stupiddd", It is NOT funny and I W-I-L-L report u!
I also do not think *you give me a gift so i give you one back because we're friends* is right for friendship, but I am just saying.
lol i dont give them that nice a gift, i might have been exaggerating! hehe i like to give people music cds and all that stuff. not like a fancy necklace for 50 dollars! D:
Answer
Either stop giving them really nice gifts ( take it down a level) or tell them what you told us in the question. Ask the politely to try to give you nicer gifts because that's what you're doing to them.
Either stop giving them really nice gifts ( take it down a level) or tell them what you told us in the question. Ask the politely to try to give you nicer gifts because that's what you're doing to them.
Any ideas for friendship gifts?
infamous_e
A small group of 4 (including myself) are best friends and have been since we were in Kindergarten, and actually we are more like sisters. Now at 35ish we get together once a year to celebrate our friendship. I would like to get gifts for all four of us that are the same, but represent our friendship (a ring, neclace or bracelet?) Something subtle, yet classy, that isn't showy, but possibly something that only means something to the four of us. I have found jewelry that is usually for two people, so any suggestions would be greatly appreciated.
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It depends on how much you actually want to spend on them. You could by them something as a whole that you could all do together, like go on a trip or by tickets to you favorite singer or band. Or you could get something for each one of them. Try going to www.gifts.com It is a great website that asked you questions about the person you are getting the gift for and asks questions about their personality until it comes up with the perfect gifts. i am sure you will find something on there to get for them. Good Luck!
It depends on how much you actually want to spend on them. You could by them something as a whole that you could all do together, like go on a trip or by tickets to you favorite singer or band. Or you could get something for each one of them. Try going to www.gifts.com It is a great website that asked you questions about the person you are getting the gift for and asks questions about their personality until it comes up with the perfect gifts. i am sure you will find something on there to get for them. Good Luck!
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