somsom120
i bought customized sweaters that say i love my boyfriend, i love my girlfriend for me and my boyfriend.
But i recently just found out that hes spending $200, and well mine only cost like $60...
We're already going to dinner, but what else should i get him? i've already made him c.ds for previously months, i've already wrote letters.
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If you think of presents as price, your relationship is going nowhere. $200 is a ridiculous amount of money to spend, thats not even sweet.. to me, that just shows hes uncomfortable with actually picking something for you. for our 5th month-versary, i got him a dinosaur card that said '5' on it with a dinosaur badge because he loves dinosaurs. for when i came back from holiday, hed written me a piano composition. for christmas last year, wed had a big argument so i skipped school and spent all my money on a beatles songbook because he loves the beatles.. its not the money you spend, its the thought you put behind it.otherwise people just become shallow, materialistic people. youre celebrating spending time together, not who can spend the most money. its not a competition.
btw, $60 for sweaters is a bit of a rip-off.. a quick internet search'd find you 'his and hers' sweaters for under $30.
our last monthy versary was our 10th and we celebrated by spending time together and i made him a card :)
also-him telling you hes spending $200 is not on. i would seriously have a chat with him. pretty sure hes trying to prove he loves you more because hes spending more money.
edit: also isnt it going to be really awkward when exchanging gifts?? you wont be like 'i got you this' 'aww you did this for me?' 'yeah it took me ages' '<3' '<3', youll be like 'i got you this, it cost $100' 'igot you this it cost $200' 'huh' '...'
maybe a slight exaggeration but still. you get my jist,yeah?
If you think of presents as price, your relationship is going nowhere. $200 is a ridiculous amount of money to spend, thats not even sweet.. to me, that just shows hes uncomfortable with actually picking something for you. for our 5th month-versary, i got him a dinosaur card that said '5' on it with a dinosaur badge because he loves dinosaurs. for when i came back from holiday, hed written me a piano composition. for christmas last year, wed had a big argument so i skipped school and spent all my money on a beatles songbook because he loves the beatles.. its not the money you spend, its the thought you put behind it.otherwise people just become shallow, materialistic people. youre celebrating spending time together, not who can spend the most money. its not a competition.
btw, $60 for sweaters is a bit of a rip-off.. a quick internet search'd find you 'his and hers' sweaters for under $30.
our last monthy versary was our 10th and we celebrated by spending time together and i made him a card :)
also-him telling you hes spending $200 is not on. i would seriously have a chat with him. pretty sure hes trying to prove he loves you more because hes spending more money.
edit: also isnt it going to be really awkward when exchanging gifts?? you wont be like 'i got you this' 'aww you did this for me?' 'yeah it took me ages' '<3' '<3', youll be like 'i got you this, it cost $100' 'igot you this it cost $200' 'huh' '...'
maybe a slight exaggeration but still. you get my jist,yeah?
Anniversary Gifts?
PineappleM
HELP I need ideas quick our annivrsary is tomorrow! Name some gifts you have given or recieved on your anniversary?
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A nice flask with your anneversary date engraved on it and then fill it with his favorite spirits. My anneversary is tommorow also. We're heading on a weekend getaway..I can't wait.
A nice flask with your anneversary date engraved on it and then fill it with his favorite spirits. My anneversary is tommorow also. We're heading on a weekend getaway..I can't wait.
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